So we’ll talk about sex, as the rest of the song suggests.
It seems there are a number of women on dating sites interested in the boogaloo, more than the relationship, which is not where I’m at. I am looking for a companion; but not the Star Trek kind. Someone to share and do things with. If we look forward to each other’s company, then maybe share breakfast. My preference is brain over body. I’ve tried the other; and found it not worth the while. This attitude negates much of the female advantage, and frustrating to some. “Why doesn’t he love me?” Because most of our time is spent out of bed. Fun, but not satisfying.
As I said, I am looking for a companion, not, at this time, a wife. That’s a whole ‘nother ball game and commitment level. So, more than a fling, but, at the start, less than a lifetime. It is good to have someone in your corner, offering support and advice. People work better, together.
At the same time, sex is not in the forefront. I’m not even that much of a fan, and I’m a man. Sure, fun for a bit, and a necessary, and desired, expression of commitment, but can be awkward and embarrassing, in circumstances where that is least welcome. I like sleeping with women, and sex is something of a necessary requirement in a relationship. I enjoy it as much as the next man, but not going to seek it out.
I have specific ideas on companions, and ‘ease of lay’ is not among them. You’ll have to try harder than that.
Say It!